What To Do With People's Judgments? Do you worry about what others are thinking? Do you not do things you want to do - dance, sing out, go places, try new styles, or business ventures - for fear of criticism, disapproval, or negative opinions? Most of us live a smaller life by avoiding imagined negative reactions. Hiding, embarrassment, and self-conscious shrinking are forms of shame. You can use them to better accept, love, and believe in yourself. You can simply check with yourself - using your heart more than your mind - to know whether to adjust something that YOU...